Happy Father’s Day to all of the father’s out there!  I know how infant loss can affect mothers, because I am a mother who has lost her child.  I am not so sure how infant loss affects fathers, I’ve never felt loss in their shoes. My husband was very strong for me.  I have only seen him cry a handful of times in the 18 years we’ve known each other.  One of those times was when we lost Jay and a few times in the months that followed.  He was heartbroken, but I could tell he also felt he needed to be strong for our family.   I hope all fathers…