The term 1 in 4 hits so close to home for me.  1 in 4 women will have a miscarriage and 1 in 160 will birth a stillborn child.  Stillbirths are not common but are not rare.   They happen more often than you think they do.   At the time I was pregnant with Jay, 3 of my best friends were also pregnant. We talked about what life would be like with our children being within 7 months of each other. We were excited that we would have children that would be so close in age to each other and grow up together.  I was the 1 of the 4…