After we lost Jay, life was kind of a haze for a while.  I was angry, shocked, in disbelief, in denial, hurt, sad.  You name it and I had those feelings in the first few months that followed. It took me 10 months to get pregnant with my daughter and 7 months to get pregnant with Jay.  A few months after losing Jay and having multiply tests run on me to see if something was wrong with me, my doctor asked about birth control.  I really hadn’t thought about it, much less anything else.  My husband and I talked and decided since it took a while to get pregnant with…